Can We Master Our Internal Reality?…

I admit that some people can be very challenging to me. Same as I am sure I could be very challenging to them…

But does that make me consider them as “problems” to me?… I chose to think it doesn’t… Especially when I learn to individually master my reality and gather the courage and the love for myself to take full responsibility all the time as I take all of my powers back from where I gave it away- only then we I face these fears.

I’m honestly not one who wishes to run away from any relationship challenges.. If anything I am often blamed to be the one who doesn’t always know when to stop trying to resolve situations and not give them enough time and space to breath before the resolve can even happen for both sides if at all…

The few souls in my life that I consider myself to be in a “teaching phase” with right now (in other words- we are not in a super close relationship) – I stay open to resolve these teachings/ confrontation with all of them before I die, should that be invited by them. As a projector that is my strategy for success and my higher self knows that all these situations are merely soul contracts… here to mirror me through their embodiments, so there really is no need to run away from myself at the end of the day. I am open to connect and I am also open to let go.

Many Zen Masters, Buddhists Teachers, Self Improvement Gurus, Higher Consciousness Teachers, Native Wisdom Keepers and simple noble souls who learned to master themselves say that if we don’t attempt to resolve our issues with our relations in this lifetime- we’ll just keep incarnating to fix them in the next life… so .. if you already know it within your soul that you can master your reality- then why not attempt to do your best with all of these karmic relationships in this lifetime?… I guess there is no “right” in life and there is no “wrong: either but given that we are each built the way we are (see ‘The Art Of Being Yourself’ or ‘The Power of Human Evolution’ to read about how I am utilizing my design to be myself as I am finding the soul tribe that will be open for my transmissions)… When we can remember that we are each constantly evolving into a higher vibrational expression of our given unique energy- we learn to flow and create less drama as we remember that we’re all ultimately from the same source.

Whenever I want to be heard as a worthy being and share my authentic self as to who I really am- I am reminding myself to do it in a way that does not “seek attention” where I can easily be judged, projected on & taken for granted for who I am… instead I find an outlet (such as this blog, or my social media channels) to open up the conversation and with that the opportunity to be loved for who I really am as an auric being.

To be the human being that we are does not mean we are allowed to lack accountability for our actions or that we can disrespect other’s boundaries in any way. Being ourselves means we know we need to communicate properly so that others can understand where we’re coming from to begin with.

Having my Heart Center defined in my chart- helps me recognize the effects of my courage on others. I notice that many undefined and open heart center people tend to either idolize the “heart power” as a beautiful space for connection but are often scared of opening themselves to their own courage. This is where Human Design can help a lot. It shows us how much we can learn about others so that we don’t feel bad about ourselves and where we’re at in life. After all- we are each designed completely different, to complete each other through these differences… and it is only our own “programming” that is causing us to judge each other and take each other for-granted to begin with…

When we look at each other’s charts there is never any “right” and “wrong” there… which is so sad to me how often we end up hurting each other out of pure ignorance… once again- Human Design can totally help to fix that when we chose to learn about our unique auras..

I believe that anyone practicing to speak their own truth is more likely to be accepted for who they are and I bet that when you would agree that whenever you chose to have that difficult conversations you were so scared of- many things can change for you for the better from that situation. You either realize that this person is not who you thought that are or you realize they are not ready to really know you because they are not ready or convinced they need to know themselves better… both options are ok as its really not in your control. Yet, learning to hold space for any imperfect relationships would be my proof to myself that I can in fact master my internal reality…

Sharing your inner experience is so important. When I started diving deep into the Human Design knowledge I immediately understand that everyone is completely different to me and in a way that is very liberating… we each have very different complexity… Many of us are hurting and struggling to relate when we expect others to be the “stronger now” because we ourself are still learning how to be that for ourselves….. 

When you learn to love all the parts of your soul (including your shadows)- that is when you truly know your soul and able to start loving it unconditionally. It is an authentic living that can lead to high levels of love, success, satisfaction, peace and awe from life.

To learn about mastering your internal reality you are invited to connect with me by booking a free discovery session